1. Egoism, unfortunately.

2. Banal energy / spiritual incompatibility, which makes you really uncomfortable to be with this person. In this case, any action / inaction, etc. of this person can very much annoy you alone, or both of each other.

Therefore, before entering into a relationship with anyone, you need to sort out your egoistic feelings: is the happiness of your soulmate really important, or do you want more love, care, and enjoy yourself from these relationships, or do you strive to provide all of the above to your soulmate too? If your desire is to satisfy yourself more in various ways with the help of a relationship with this person, then we recommend waiting to enter into a relationship, and getting married even more, because neither of you will be happy in such a relationship. Sooner or later, unfortunately, your "union" will break up.

And, of course, it is desirable to choose a soul mate for spiritual compatibility in order to live really in complete harmony!